Signs That Your Relationship Is Sick By Oby Ogbolu

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    If you experience any or all of these in your relationship, it’s time to call it quits and do something sensible with your life. You are in a sick relationship and it will eventually damage you!
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    1. THEY MAKE JEST OF YOU A LOT: That is not a joke, it is mental abuse. If your partner always make fun of your looks, intellect, spirituality, background, past and achievements, that is a clean clear sign they so not accept you the way you are, neither do they respect you -END IT!
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    2. THEY ARE ASHAMED OF YOU IN PUBLIC: They will not introduce you to friends and families, act cold in public but very warm to you in private, they are ashamed of you, END IT!
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    3. SHE DOES NOT RESPECT YOU: The woman whose dowry you want to pay, put under your roof and take care of you should see you as a leader and show you a measure of respect. If she always insult you, disgrace you, belittle you and makes you feel like a non-entity both in private and in public, you’ve picked a Margaret Thatcher! Release her and let her go in peace. END IT!
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    4. HE DOESN’T LOVE YOU: No affection, no respect, no fondness (I didn’t say fondling), no care, no attention, no compassion, kindness and mercy, you are not for him, END IT!
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    5. THEY ARE NOT FAITHFUL: They still communicate with their ex as if they are still dating, has a very close, intimate relationship with another opposite sex “friend”, double dates, has multiple partners labelled “counsellees”, “mentees”, “students”, “sisters in the Lord”/ “brothers in Christ”, “close relative” and the relationship is questionable.
    You are dealing with a potential adulterer. You are too precious to share your husband/wife with another person for the rest of your married life. END the relationship!
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    6. THEIR PARENTS DO NOT ACCEPT YOU: Either pray to God to change their hearts or you end it in peace. You cannot run away from your in-laws. Live a million miles away from them, they will always be a part of your relationship. If they hate you now, they will hate you forever and make your marriage to their son/daughter a living hell. END IT NOW!
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    7. THEY ALWAYS ASK FOR SEX. You are nothing but a sexual object to them. The only good thing they see in you is your sexual organ. You are more than that. END the sick relationship!
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    8. THEY ALWAYS COMPARE YOU WITH THEIR EX. You are not their ex! They should go and marry their ex if they are missing them so much. End the damn relationship!
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    9. THEY DON’T TAKE GOD AND HIS WORD SERIOUS. Your marriage will not work, end it!
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    10. THEY ARE LAZY, STINGY, VISIONLESS AND GOALLESS: They are financial disaster going to happen! You are too precious to spend the rest of your life in poverty. End the sick relationship!
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    Most of the people I counsel daily are in sick relationships and they hope patching it up will magically solve all their problems. If your courtship is giving you headache, your marriage will give you hell.
    End it before you tie the knot at the altar, then it is too late. May the Lord grant you understanding. God bless you.

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